A few year ago , it seemed like a long shot that Spider - Man would ever come along in the MCU ( thanks to some effectual mumbo jumbo with Sony ) , but now , it ’s insufferable to render the dealership without him . Part of Marvel ’s negotiation with Sony was that another Avenger had to have a supporting function in the first Spidey solo movie , so Iron Man was sum as a wise man out of effectual indebtedness .

Then , something sorcerous happened : the two developed an adorable father - son relationship that became the pose heart and soul of the MCU . Here are some of the most heart - warm moment they share together . watch over out for spoiler if you are n’t up to date with the movies !

Tony recruits Peter to join the fight inCivil War

When Tony recruits Peter to join the airport battle inCaptain America : Civil War , they sit in Peter ’s bedroom and talk about the motives of superheroes . Tony asks,“Why are you doing this ? I commence ta know . What ’s your M.O. ? What get you out of that twin bed in the aurora ? ”

Peter explains,“When you’re able to do the things that I can , but you do n’t , and then the bad thing happen , they happen because of you . ”The smell Tony give Peter after he tell this tells us everything we require to know about their human relationship . He do it his posture , buthe’ll also sacrifice   himself to protect him .

Tony gives Peter a new suit

When Queens ’ well-disposed neighborhood Spider - Man first comes onto Tony Stark ’s radiolocation , he ’s fall apart a homemade suit that ’s basically just cerise and depressed clothes . Tony updates his suit with a gang of tech , include a parachute , webbed semi - wings , adjustable eye electron lens ( which are really just a dramatic dick to show emotion when he ’s in the wooing ) , and an artificial intelligence operation list Karen .

Peter could n’t be more activated when he receives it:“Look at this affair ! Look . Look at the eye ! It ’s like – it ’s like a skin - tight Iron Man suit . ”This is the superhero version of bugger off a cool raw toy dog from your daddy when you ’re a kid .

Tony goes for the door and Peter goes in for a hug

At the begin ofSpider - Man : Homecoming , we pick up exactly where Peter Parker’sCivil Wararc left off , with Happy Hogan flying him back to Queens from Berlin and Tony Stark neglect him off at Aunt May ’s flat . When they arrive at the construction , Tony reaches for the room access and Peter mistakenly thinks he ’s go in for a clinch .

Tony tell him,“we’re not there yet . ”The sweet thing is that , in a couple of movies ’ time , they would be there . The unfortunate affair , though , is thatthey’d have to watch each other croak – on separate occasions – to get there .

“If you’re nothing without that suit, then you shouldn’t have it.”

When Peter ignores Tony ’s wishes to leave the shell of the Vulture ’s arms - dealing ring to the FBI , Tony ask for the Spider - Man case back . Peter says,“You do n’t understand , I ’m nothing without this suit!”and Tony tells him,“If you ’re nothing without that suit , then you should n’t have it,”before dropping the mic .

Tony later gain that this was an important moment in the development of their Padre - son relationship and says,“Sorry I took your suit . I imply , you had it come . Actually , it turn out it was the complete sort of tough love moment that you take , to urge you on , correct ? ”

Tony invites Peter to join the Avengers

All throughoutSpider - military personnel : Homecoming , Peter disobeys Tony and goes after the high-risk guys he ’s onto against Tony ’s wishes . On a few occasions , Tony is disappointed in him and Peter push their relationship to the breaking point . However , in the ending , he proves himself .

Without the Spidey suit Tony gave him , hestill make do to bring the Vulture to justiceand save people in the appendage . Tony eventually invites Peter to join the Avengers , but Peter turns him down . Tony pretend it was a test , but he really does have a cluster of reporters in a insistence conference look for him to foretell the newest Avenger .

Tony tries to stop Peter from coming to space

When Thanos ’ ground forces become up in New York , Peter hops off his school bus and psyche over to Sanctum Sanctorum to join the battle . But Tony desire him to ride out safe , so he tells him to go home to Aunt May as he and Doctor Strange board the Q - Ship as it departs for Titan .

As he often does , Peter ignores Tony ’s wishes and sling his way onto the Q - Ship anyway . When Tony understand he ca n’t supress his surrogate son ’s need to answer the call to action , he deploysthe Iron Spider armorso that he can respire in space and join the engagement .

“Mr. Stark, I don’t feel so good.”

Audiences across the globe were stunned when Thanos snapped his fingerbreadth at the end ofAvengers : Infinity Warand all our best-loved character started become to dust . We ’d see 19 motion picture in this franchise and this was the first time that the spoilt guys won . It was a scandalous machine .

Spider - Man ’s “ dust ” was more elongated than the rest , because the Russo brothers see an chance to wring some extra emotion out of the shot andasked Tom Holland and Robert Downey , Jr. to improvise a small . From that improvisation , we got this immortal job : “ Mr. Stark , I do n’t palpate so near . ”

A framed picture of Peter inspires Tony to invent time travel

When Scott Lang comes out of the Quantum Realm inEndgameand comes to terms with what ’s happened to the universe , he has the approximation togo back in time and fix everything . So , he takes the estimation to the other Avengers , who present it to   Tony Stark , who … send away it immediately .

Not only does he remember it ’s a foresightful gibe , he does n’t want to risk losingthe kin aliveness he ’s foundin the five twelvemonth since Thanos ’ cataclysmal fingerbreadth - snap . But then he regard a compose picture of Peter Parker and he ca n’t bear the idea of not even trying to bring him back . It ’s really sweet .

Peter comes back to life and Tony is delighted

lover await a whole year to see what happened to all the fibre who turned to dust at the last ofInfinity War , and we got an explanation courtesy of Spider - Man when they all returned to fall in the Avengers ’ struggle inEndgame .

He ran up to Iron Man and said,“You will not believe what ’s been going on . Do you retrieve when we were in space ? And I got all dust-covered ? I must ’ve snuff it out , ‘ cause I fire up up , and you were gone . But Doctor Strange was there , right ? He was like , ‘ It ’s been five year . arrive on , they demand us ! ’ And then he started doing the chickenhearted sparkly affair that he does all the time … ”And the whole clock time Peter ’s saying this , we can just see that Tony ’s over the moon that he ’s live .

Tony’s Uncle Ben moment in Endgame

Since the MCU madethe heady conclusion to vamoose Spidey ’s origin storyand jump right into the action , we never aim to see Uncle Ben ’s death and his“With swell power get along great responsibility”moment . However , inEndgame , we did get a very similar moment with Tony Stark .

He grabbed the Infinity Stones out of Thanos ’ hand , put them into the Iron Gauntlet , and rupture his digit , sacrificing himself to save the world . A few characters join his side to share one last moment with him , but it was Peter Parker whose parting was the most heartbreaking .

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